Girl, take a second and really read what u just wrote. I promise, the answers are all right there. He’s not worth it. He literally told you that she thinks he’s her boyfriend, but he’s only there to ‘not break her heart.’ Are u serious? What an asshole😭 Let’s be real: he’s probably giving her hope just like he’s stringing u along. Maybe he even told her he’s with u cuz he doesn’t want to ‘break your heart😩’ u deserve better than this. If u don’t respect urself and know ur worth, no man ever will. u don’t need to be an option, a backup plan, or someone he keeps around for convenience. u should be his only world. My advice? Walk away. Break up with him and take a breather from r/ships. Focus on urself, heal, and build the life u want. And let’s be honest—most boys (not men) only care about one thing, and they’re not worth your time or energy. Wait for someone who’s actually deserving of u. And about the virginity thing—why are u even asking for a man’s opinion? Who cares what they think? Half of them want a ‘virgin’ while running around with a body count of ten. Keep your dignity and your decisions for yourself, not for their approval. You owe them nothing. i know rejm nw yetsafkut gn what the hell👀