Something I can tell you for sure is a man who is truly interested in you will let you know and do his best to make you his. He won't play in the middle-ground. Isn't this a serious issue? I mean, we can't afford the luxury of hurting ourselves in these complications. We are either in or not. I suggest, openly talk with him about how his acts are making you feel and then you'll know where you stand for sure. Why waste a minute with someone who isn't sure about you?