Your opinions really matter so be careful when you advise me.  I have a brother who took University entrance exam and didn't pass.  I'm the eldest in the house, my mom doesn't have a job and we lost our dad so taking care of the family is entirely on my shoulder.  Thank God I have done a good job so far. Started my own business and helped my family but now I'm confused.  On one hand I want my brother to pursue his degree in a private institution.  On the other hand, deep down, I see the degree as a waste of time and I'm thinking of guiding him into business.  My worries are their absolute reliance on my plans. My brother or my mom would follow anything I say at this point so I fear making a bad decision on their behalf.  What would you do if you were in my place?