If he doesn't feel okay with something, you have to respect his preferences with love. But if there's unnecessary "አዝሻለው-ማን ያዘኛል" envy between you two, it's a red flag, and you should let it go. Maybe you’re a girl, but let me share a perspective from the boys' side. All my friends have changed after they started serious dating. They minimized the fun times we used to have to give their partners the attention they want. We can't talk about anything we used to, and sometimes they feel burdened or restricted, but they still embrace it because they know it’s the sacrifice they should make for love. So, if you want a serious relationship, you should behave before being told to. If he asks you not to wear certain clothes, don’t wear them. If he asks you to reduce your makeup, do as he says. How would you feel if you asked him to change his haircut and he replied "እንዴት እንደምቆረጥ አንቺ አትነግሪኝም"? That would be frustrating, right? Now imagine you asked him to change his haircut, and he did. That would be cute, right? Generally, The only hardest thing to obey is only if you are told to leave the circle of your friends. That one is extremely hard; but you have to reduce the time you have with them if necessary. So, What I want to say is that if you both love each other, you should be willing to accommodate each other. You don't have to feel enslaved for this. But if you do, tolo akumu