That's not a lot to ask. That's not an unreasonable request. However, I believe it's important to be realistic, especially when considering the current realities in our country. While there are certainly men within the age range you mentioned who are financially stable, they are quite rare. Most men at that age are still figuring things out and working hard to establish themselves. Many may have a decent job, but true financial security can still be elusive. So, it's not that your expectations are too high; it's just that life can be tougher than we often anticipate.