Let me try to be as polite as possible: Trust me wend lij amarebshm alamarebshm, yemilakef aynet wend kehone set mehonsh bchawun beki nw anchin lemelakef. And, I honestly think you are in grave danger if catcalling makes you smile and has the power to change your mood for the day. I know you said, you are not an attention seeker, but the things you described are the main indicators of it. If the words that make other women very comfortable and even make them cry make you smile and even long for it, what other conclusion can we really from this?