I am not a woman but lemme just put here my opinion: You know love can make us blind to the facts that are around us. So, here are the questions I want to you to answer honestly: Why did he divorced his late wife? Whose mistake was it? Have he tried to fix the issues before making this decision? Are you really willing and able to take all the responsibilities that come with his kids? Do you think you are capable of handling all the critics that are gonna thrown at you both from your families and the society? I know that's a lot of questions, but please, try to answer them without being emotional and without being influenced by the feelings you've for him, because since you said you're madly in love with him you might be clouded from seeing things from what they truly are.