Ayesha, the lies we tell today has the potential of ruining our future. I understand, the reason why you lied. But every choice we make has a consequence. You've to understand this: love requires a complete honesty, though it might cost you a thing or two. So, in my humble opinion, be honest with him. Tell him you did what you did with your ex bf thinking you'd have a future with him. I know this is hard, but that's the right way. And for the girls out there, who are thinking having a sex before marriage is normal, you'll regret it later in life. You'll never find a woman who's proud of herself for having a sex before marriage. No amount of love should convince you to have sex before you are committed to your husband.