I am 23, a guy and a virgin as well. Being a virgin is not just about the state of your genitals. It is also about the value you hold and the respect you have for yourself,the opposite sex and the sanctity of marriage. Its also about having the rationale to have self restraint and valuing your life. Don't let these horny gerbils tell you otherwise. Sleeping around and exposing your self for everyone who smiles and buys you mobile card is objectively wrong. Don't give me that crap about begin modern and how we shouldn't judge and shit. Its doesn't matter if it happens in 1938 or 2019. Wrong is always wrong! If we as a society don't praise good and judge evil, Then what the fuck is the point of having a society. Go live in the jungle alone. And I feel no shame of wanting to get married to someone who shares my values. So a good person will care of your past sexuality and I too would expect my spouse to care. If its a free for all then what's the point then .If someone previously made a mistake then the first step is to admit it was a mistake and then turn a new leaf. Don't justify being a whore.