Wend kehonk attention betinishu bicha sitat setoch attention enfeligalen bilum ewnetaw gin kante gar gize yemasalef hasbun (imagination or the longing) ena complement sitat gin atabzaw ena degmo random adirgew and last but not least metfo gize eyasalefech kehone weym egeza feliga kehone be confidence agizat atirbetbet. Set kehonsh leloch wendochin atawiri (I know wend guadegnoch linorush yichilalu gin beka just cut them or at least bizum atagignachew)...and most importantly have a respect for him...never compare with other guys...yemitfeligiwin neger ask him directly don't make him guess. And finally the obvious: communicate with each other , keep your boundaries.