Almsot every BOY has atleast a small amount of that behavior. Boys are usualky craving for the girs that are tough to get and not for those who show them love and understanding. They are not looking for love, they are just looking for an ego boost and winning. That is boyhood... Real men ena besel yalu sewoch endeza ayaregum, especially someone who has been in multiple r/ships usually understands the importance of being loved. I have been living with a friend who was like that and i witnessed his evolution from that to a man who appreciates the ones that love him and doesn't bother much about the attention seekers and seemingly tough-to-get ones.