Honestly, i'm a very realistic person and i don't expect much from people. I tend to heal on my own, I don't tend to share my feelings to get sympathy even when there is someone who genuinely cares, unless i trully feel that way about them.
But somehow, i feel you.
People are different, we all deal with things differently. But what i'm about to tell you has no exception or other options.
Whe u share ur feelings, make it clear, be open and make sure people understand or don't share them at all.
Ppl will not joke about your feelings if you do that BECAUSE that would clearly be insensitive of them.... And even if they do, they would be wide open for criticisms or smth even worse... You can look into their eyes and tell them how big of an asshole they are and you u'd be totally understandable
I would also tell you to choose the right audiences but that's not your problem.
I like the fact that you write notes like that.... I do the same and it's nice.
Feb 14, 2024