The Way i see it…when people love you they accept you as you…. but Maybe he’s tryna tell you that there are somethings u need to work on…and if he’s real and he really loves you he’ll help you to become the best version of yourself….other than that ..constantly telling you “you need to change” cannot be defined as Love what so ever… U, on your own…try to update ur self often…but don’t be something that ur not to fit his fabricated reality …