What ever u do don't ask her like "can u kiss u" or anything like that start by kissing her her forehead shows your respect for her let the tension build for days, next day make sure u have eye contact look at her lips and back to her eyes shows u r thinking about it again Don't act on it kiss her forehead and hug her for a long time, next date see how she reacts when u hug her for a Long time and hold her make her look up at u and look at her eyes if her eyes keeps wondering back to ur lips then my man that's ur move. Gen don't ever I mean ever ask her if u can kiss her