Genezeb masab or genezeb wedad honek or honesh adelem....you want to live a better life and become independent...so does everyone. So it's normal that you feel this way. And does the education system in Ethiopia can help you achieve that?- in my opinion, I don't think so. It depends on a lot of factors but if u have other options, definitely it is better to consider these options rather than joining campus in Ethiopia. 1,you may go abroad to study. I think this is the best option you have. In addition to giving you opportunity to pursue your education,it will open other possibilities for you to make ur life better 2,u can study and work or start a business as a side hustle while you're in university. Whatever institution u join in Ethiopia,be it private or governmental, please don't rely too much on the degree. just like this try to consider every possible option you have. If u find an option that is better for u than joining an Ethiopian university, please take it! Final thing I wanna say is that don't listen too much on what your family or anyone for that matter expects you to do. You are the one who should decide what path u want to take. You are the one who knows the current system or the overall situation of our country. If you don't know, please update yourself and try to figure out what is worthy of your time. I know our parents wants the best for us, but to be frank most of them don't really understand the reality when it comes to education in our country or the general job market. So please be careful about whose opinions you want to take into consideratio. Good luck !!!