there is no such a thing as best, its relative term that used to over compensate the experience we each encounter, ie my best tastiest food is the best in my experience, those experience are the foods that i hv eaten be4, i only can relate and compare to those not the ones others have eaten.....so by this logic if we bring this to a social r/ship specially a romantic kind, when ur soon to be ex says u deserve the best, it means u r not the best for me, dont take it as personally, it means u r not compatible, u might think he/she is best for u and that's, and i think thats wrong cause u r comparing him/her with ur past/present relationships, i like to think there is a such thing called absolute best, when i mean by this is when u both agree, that u r best for each other and its not lie, from that u can rly define u r indeed best for each other, but this leads to a basic human behavior the need for wanting more, if i got the best we all ask ourselves, wts next? and i wnt that! and again its fine wanting for more and in perusing that we rly know if out past r/ship was the best.
Oct 08, 2023