What's wrong witg u man? U get attention when u outwork urself , not because u want it so bad. It's all because u don't have a goal in life. U don't have something to spend ur time with. When u have nothing to do that's all u think about. Being with someone. But guess what, if u can't build urself physically, spritually nd financially u r fucked man. So find some meaning in ur life, something u enjoy doing and work to better everyday. Don't be a sitting duck waiting to be picked by someone.