Selam sewoch especially for youth ወንዶች ምን መሰላቹ I have older brother who is 23 graduated and he is working in a small company with small salary and the work didn't even take 2 hrs. so day mullu free new.previously his behavior was quite good endet endemlachu alawkm beka betam introvert new bezawm smarter neber in all angles but suddenly he changed his behavior 180 degree beka completely lella sew , miwlew wchi ,chat/bercha , cigara mnmn jemere bet ke hole family metalat jemere even ke father ena mother tllu demo yet new mtwlew or eneman nachew gudeghochh ssibal new beka bachruu graa geban mn endemnareg esti endesu aynet neger wst yeneberachu kalachu esti yehone mella belun by the way my cousin also the same gn esu ahun lella ketema new he is not interested to tell anything .
Sep 08, 2023Most times ppl r not the way they seem maybe ur brother started experimenting with those things back when he was at UV, trust me as introvert myself we know hw to hide n not to be noticed. Maybe he handled it well all those years especially if he was away from home different city back when he was at UV, thats more likely. Ofc this assumption is based on my experiencec, if ur not busy n the work doesn't demand that much mental work + if there is no direction in ur life if ur not planing to change the situation ur in considering ur not paid well or at least having better experience for ur future u will be hopeless n caught up in some circle of friends doing things u dont really thought of just following the "dudes" trying to make sense of the world. Try to have very honest talk with him dont be judgmental, if ur or acting like ur not he will sense it. be close n honest n try to be his friend then u will understand why he is doing all this or even suggest some tips but it takes time if is deep into it, maybe its just a phase but trying to know ur self really helps at least that worked for me........ U can only try he is a grown man he is making the choices.... Good luck!!
Sep 09, 2023