first stop focusing on urself... anchi werea alekebish malet enesu yalkbachwal malet adelm 2nd... ghosting sucks than a boring chat 3rd... give a damn... mechem silemtaweriw sw mnm gb kalsetesh endtm blesh yanin convo megfat atchiyim and if u don't give a damn... don't chat.. easy 4th.. stick to something concrete if u r shy... most of the time people don't want to take ur personality as one subject and sit through it for hours of vise versa so have something other than personal interest to talk about... if not the chat dies 5th... u don't have to open up to get to know someone or push the interaction forward... feeling the burden will kill the chat 6th... give open answers... if ur answers won't invite other questions or are not followed by questions for the asker.... the chat dies and the only following question u have goes like ..." blah blah bla and u ? " yes yes the chat dies easy 7. if it is not fun... what the hell r u doing there? don't force it... if u do the chat dies