Hi guys and girls, i was dating this girl for almost 5 months and it great. She is kind, beautiful just a wholesome person. The problem is when i try to initiate intimacy, she always pulls back. Its been like this for around 3 weeks. First i thought she was on her 🩸,but that was not the case. She always says she isn't in the mood. What should i do?
Sep 04, 2023Intimacy isn't allowed before marriage
Sep 05, 2023There r possiblities as i see it... One is ...She is not Physically attracted to you like she is emotionally...the second one is...She needs affirmation or idk pretty enough validation about how ur not using her for ur own pleasure...the other one is...it might be the way she grew up...incase if she's in strict environment....but u guys gotta talk... trust me ... Emotional intimacy ain't enough, for r/nship...
Sep 05, 2023Dude I used to have a girl like that. So what you gotta do is, before you start being intimate with her tell her how you really feel about her ( Don't just say I love you, like an idiot) Tell her how you really feel about her and make it poetic and if she is feeling it ask her that you want to take this to the next level and be intimate with her slowly (make that part clear, slowly, so she doesnt expect something big and be afraid)... and see how it goes
Sep 05, 2023