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So I'm 21 and the thing is that i have a toxic mom she always put her self first there are times where she disappear for several days then return like she did nothing even if i am የመጨረሻ ልጅ i cook food for everyone wash the dishes and deal with my emotional father until my mom returns she goes to ጠንቅዋይ ቤት every now and then we tried to stop her but we failed... My father is a great person he is literally the opposite of my mom he take care of us like a mother and work hard like a father... Its really hard for me to manage all this things as a college student what shall i do please don't say pray to God give me other solutions

Jul 15, 2023

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ThisIsMe

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I don't know what to say but stay strong bro. I grew up in a strict family being beatn by my mom and my dad so I don't know what love is? I know how it feels being rejected by ur family. Yeah it is difficult but everything passes and @ some time the near future you will start living your own life by urself, u will start making your own decisions,... bla bla. What I recommend is stay strong, set yor goal and try ur best to achieve ur goal and also praying helps too. Rooting for u bro... if you want you can DM me and we can share our life experiences.

Jul 16, 2023

TameHawk97

Stop being dependent on them or her and Just start working on urself, improve urself and also u still have ur dad to support u!! Being sad makes ur father worry more about u but Instead Make him proud that he has you Don't let this ruin ur future life!!!!!!!!!! Then maybe one day u'll understand why she is like this and prevent regretting saying I wish I understood her before

Jul 16, 2023

Aninimal

778OP

Thanks

Jul 16, 2023

Lucifer

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ፍታት በለው

Jul 16, 2023

Yourbiggestfear

1. your mom goes to የጠንቋይ ቤት that's why she disappears, that doesn't make her toxic,that makes her a person in a problematic situation just like you. 2.የመጨረሻ ልጅ መሆን it doesn't prevent you from doing home chores. It's a good thing, taking care of your family to such degree is a GOOD THING. 3. DEAL with your EMOTIONAL father??? What?? But he is a great person at the same time??? Those two don't go with each other unless you wanted to say something else. 4. have you tried to get help from other siblings(since you said የመጨረሻ ልጅ)??? Divide home chores if you wash dish today let somebody do it the other day. Talk with your family one by one(if scared to do it all at once about this) even your mom. If your dad is great then tell him about the load of work that's on you, to make the others help you out.

Jul 24, 2023

Aninimal

778OP

Bro she's toxic she wants us to approve everything that she do including going to witch house, Yeah my father becomes emotional when my mom leaves and he starts to scream on everyone mnamn aside from that he's a good person. And my other siblings are even worst than me except my sister i can't ask them for help i have a brother who is 30 years old and he don't want to work and he thinks thats fine becha bezu new😂 andande seko malef new

Jul 24, 2023

Sa_mnat

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@Message_of_love2

Jul 16, 2023

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