This is giving me bad vibes for the following reasons. 1. You're not even sure he loves you. Trust me, you would know if someone you're in a relationship loves you. 2. Men in their 30's are supposed to be more mature, and one of the qualities that makes them more attractive is that their more likely to settle down. And with settling down come responsibilities, like a family and career, that don't always give you time for sex (not saying you shouldn't have a healthy sex life in your 30s, but it shouldn't be a priority). So his argument doesn't make much sense to me. But having said that, he could just be someone with a high sex drive. So talk to him about your concerns, and maybe set a plan for some of your dates so that you're both comfortable. His reaction/response to making the relationship work will show you how much he wants you. P.S. if you're in your early 20s, please be careful not to get manipulated, because it happens too often.