As a girl who has a lot of relationship experience... Here are my tips on how men have captured my heart 1. Be yourself. Don't pretend to love or hate anything. 2. Try to be funny but don't try too hard. Try sweet, harmless jokes. Avoid dark, edgy, political and offensive jokes until you know what she likes. 3. Compliment and appreciate her. 4. NEVER and I MEAN NEVER talk badly about women in any way. Idc about what people say about liking men who treat us bad, we don't. Men tend to treat the women who already like them in a bad way, not at first. Be kind to her. 5. Take good care of yourself. Be clean, smell good, try to dress good... Looks matter but not just ur face, how u present urself can make u 100x hotter. 6. PLEASE avoid sexual talks. Don't talk about sex in any way for at least 2 months. And If she initiates it, be open and don't make her feel ashamed. 7. Don't be boring. Let her know that you have an interesting personality.