I think most of us confuse attraction and love. Dreaming about someone, smiling when you see them, wanting to spend time with them... that ain't love. I would say that love is action and not just simple desire. Love is going out of your way for that person, love is sacrificing what you value for that person, love is being there for that person even when they fuck up. Love is a prison of compassion. Love binds you into a promise your actions make. Love is living for someone that isn't you. Hope this helps. Good Day 🌆