You should be financially independent before making such decisions, so take your time, build your career. If something happens in the long run you need to have some kind of back up. This days mefatat beztual. andu teleku mekniyat alemetewawek new, sewoch ketedar ketewesene giz buhala new tekekelegna baheriachew mitawekew, endihum menanak yimetal. Yane alemegbabt bifeter endihum beteleyayu biyans le rasesh mehon alebesh. menem bihon kedmiya wede timhertsh weyem wede serash, lelaw kes belo yedersal. My Personal take, is i don't recommend age gaps larger than 5, but i understand it might differ for others. Beterefe Beteseb weyem Guadegnawoch weyem yaleshebeten huneta bedenb miyawku sewochen amakri. Good Luck!