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Hi, I kinda wanted your help. I was raped when I was 12 by a close family member. I've never told anyone this, and I don't plan on doing so. But the thing is, I have a boyfriend, whom I love very very much, and he is a ዲያቆን. We plan on getting married, but I know that's not possible (because of me not being a virgin), but I still haven't told him. Throughout my life, the fact that I was raped never had a deep influence on me, neither emotionally nor socially. But if it stops me from getting the person I love, that would devastate me (and him, actually). As the days pass, I feel very guilty for not telling him, and for leading him to something that won't happen. I don't know what to do...please please help me.

Feb 23, 2023

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SilverJaguar21

225

First of all I'm so sorry that happened to you I can't imagine the pain you've been going through and I'm so proud of you that you are now here and strong ❤this is not your fault and no one can judge you for this tell your boyfriend this and if he gets mad or think you deceive him then he is not the one honey I mean it's not easy to tell this things he should be understanding I don't care if he is diakon or anything but this is not something you should be ashamed of please be strong eshi whatever happens God loves you and that's what matters I hope you the best

Feb 24, 2023

Joel

1433

Diakon new yalechew, Diakon magbat michlew dengel set selehone new. Lijtua eyasebech yalechew yesua Virgin alemehon esun kemagbat yagdegnal yemilew new and also esum eyewededat kihnet selalew langaba enchlalen yemilewn asba new.

Feb 24, 2023

Anoymous

536

I think unless ur period come on your 12 age, you might still be a virgin. Did u bleed at that time?? If not or if he didn't rape you after 3 days again you could be virgin still so go to clinic ena they will check you and tell you. Their is also a surgery dngelna lmemels. If you turn out to be dengel your b.f blela mnged endiyagbash masamen yanchi sera new. Be alemawi serg malt new. Alza gn baby ngeriw ena miredash ena miktele khone mlkam alza gn atchenanki kbede bihed abebe ymetal. Yanchi value virginitish matter matter mayargbet bota ynoral so atchenanki yanchi yalew ytem ayhedem.

Feb 24, 2023

273

Talk to your nsha abat , Yemilushn argi keza

Feb 24, 2023

ThatDude

1791

Your option is pretty much narrow ....you have to tell him...you just have to know that it was not your fault.. Tell him the truth,if he is a deacon and loves you enough...he might understand. He might get mad because you waited this long mnamn..gn just tell him,the truth shall set you free. Sincerely ThatDude

Feb 24, 2023

LavenderBeetle51

1198.5

Don't you think that someone who did this to you should be punished? What if he's doing it to someone else?( He's definitely done it to someone else for sure) you shouldn't be silent about these things this is a huge crime. Whoever that did this should be humiliated, known and punished for what they did. It makes me sad that you choose to lay low and have them around people and get away with their crime. As for the Diacon he should Understand you. You were raped. We all know it's not ur fault if we( strangers) understand you this much then your lover should be able to not only understand you but help you and sympathize with you. Else, he was never a lover

Feb 24, 2023

Am_everywhere

6762

The best day to tell him was yesterday,but today is the second best day! Brave girl.

Feb 24, 2023

Fantasy

1464

You have to give him the chance to know abt it, he is the man you wanna share it life wz, so wt u can do is tell him and let the rest play out on his own. I wish u the best

Feb 24, 2023

Ynw

If you were raped u can still get married with him even if youre not a virgin

Mar 19, 2023

Anonymuous

I heard it's okay if it's a rape As long as he's fine with it, you guys still can get married be teklil Gn ask yebetekrstyan abatochn kedmesh

Feb 24, 2023

Efi2124

Nesaha abatedhen anagriyachw kenona setewesh yestekakelal edezi yagatenew sew selemawek nw kezi befit

Mar 01, 2023

Joel

1433

Sorry for what happened to you back then, i really am dear. Before telling him what is going on or what has happened to you, niseha abat kalesh amakri, kelelesh betekrstian hijina yehonu abat anagri. Niseha abat binorsh gen tru new, meknyatum esachewn kanagersh behuala esun setanagri amakari ewket yalew sew yasfelgshal. Egziabher kanchi gar yihun. Higun bawkew ena benegrsh des yilegn neber gen AAE lay kemtagegniw in person abat gar meteyeku yeteshale new. Menem bifeter gen please kesu gar rega belachu awru. Mawrat deg new.

Feb 24, 2023

Fakanayt

222

Ngeriw benatsh🙏🏽 and yensha abatshn amakri esum bzu kemechenek ydnal

Feb 24, 2023

Chechebsa

1814

Tell him and set things straight. And if you guys can't take it further, please know love is a mental illusion. You can create it better with the next guy. Gen why do I hear many "Deacon" romances 😂 yan yakl bezu Diyakon endale alakem neber.

Feb 24, 2023

VastSloth92

AIFE

Feb 24, 2023

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