Yehonen sew betewdut ena yasewem endemewedachu negruachu but u didn't say nothing to him setasebut gn you can't settle at least for the next 5 years also you are not sure if your family will allow this relationship not because he has some kind of bad behavior they know he in the church we are kind of aberuadegoch & he say if u want to make decisions based on your family interests that is not gonna work I don't know what to do