First u should know that you aren't running out of time. You have all the time u need. Relax! Don't be desperate. Secondly I wanna say that u can't really get a bf by ticking if boxes that he meets ur "standard".. it doesn't work that way. This my opinino tho... I think you should just build relationship with people. Your intention might not be for love. For whatever reason u get to know that person. You understand eveey bit of that person. And at some point, u may say that could be the right person. But not because he met ur standards but because u get to know who he really is. There isn't one perfect bf for u. But there is the right one. U can't find him by searching or by setting standards. He will come to u in the right time. I am not saying wait. I am telling u to live. Just live to the fullest! Build relationships with people. The right one could be one of these people or it may not be. That's okay. Live and love will find you. U ain't gotta search for it or set standards. Just be open to get to know people and just live.