Well እኔ እንደምረዳው, there are 2 clashing components when you begin a relationship. Component 1 - Lead a life that serves to your emotional, physical, mental and social status development. Component 2 - A relationship is built upon the principle of give and take. When we live alone, we mostly serve ourselves. Yes, occasionally we give away money and take care of our parents. But even that serves the moralistic side of us. When we live alone, we have to hunt alone, but we're also allowed to eat alone. In a relationship however, we have to become a team player. Our priorities shit a little bit. And we become one in a herd. My take on the matter is, it is alright to sacrifice parts of ourselves for a relationship and tolerate other things. Because a relationship will never exist just to serve us. BUT if what's happening in the relationship ማሰናከል's us from our personal growth, that's when we should not tolerate nor sacrifice. That's when I have to be selfish and put my needs ahead. So if your relationship requires you to stop partying or sth, it's alright. If your relationship requires you to change your job or your beliefs, you need to not allow that. Hope this helped. Good Day!