hey guys ❤️ so I have always wanted to stay a virgin till marriage,…

PhiIosopher

2404

First of all don't do surgery fetari yelbshn yawkewal bekurban agbi tegedesh new enji felgesh adelem yaregshew 2 hulum wend mnm alaregsehm attyachew keneza west lifeshn miyadnew ynoralna 3 be always full of confidence and energy😇

Jan 31, 2023

Ashh

296

Am really sorry for what happened to you but this is not your fault at all and you should stop blaming yourself it's easier said than done but just tell yourself that it was not your fault and you will eventually grow into believing it and in my opinion you need someone who can make you secure about it someone to tell you that it's okay and again it's easier said than done but try to be just a little open to men and maybe you will find your prince charming that can make it all alright

Jan 31, 2023

Room11

267

Did the rapist get cought?

Jan 31, 2023

Derpepe

12

መፍትሄሽ እንደውም ማግባት ነው! ለምን እንዳልኩሽ ላስረዳሽ። The guy who raped you is a beast. ግን የደፈረሽ ስሜቱን ተከትሎ ነው። ስለዚህ አንቺ ያ ስሜት ምን አይነት እንደሆነ ማጣጣም አለብሽ። በንጽህና ሲሆን ደግሞ ከህሊና ጋ ሳይጋጭ ጸዴ ስሜት ነው ሚሰጥሽ። ከሰው ልጅ ባህሪ አንዱ መልመድ ነው። Improve የማያረግ አካል የለንም፣ ስለዚህ አስመስለሽም ቢሆን ውደጂ አይከብድሽም ድንግል ባል አግቢ። ጉዳቱ ሳይኮሎጂካል ስለሆነ ቢመለስም ስሜት የለውም(ቨርጂኒቲው ማለቴ ነው)። ስሜት ና ጠባይ እንዲሁም ፍላጎት ሳይኮሎጂካሊ improve መደረግ ሚችሉ ነገሮች ናቸው። በርግጥ መደፈር ቀላል ነገር አደለም ሰዉ ሚገርምሽ አስገድዶ መደፈሩን ትቶ፣ አስገድዶ እንዲደፍሩት እያደረገ ነው። ስለዚህ ከባድ ነገር እንደሆነ ባቅም ለመልመድ ሞክሪ። ጸልዪ የትራውማ ጌታ(የሳኮሎጂ መዳኒት) እግዜሩ ነው!! ይፈውስሻል። እምነት ስላለሽ አይከብድሽም። Just pray on it. ብዙ መጻፍ ይቻላል ግን ኢሄም ትርጉም ከተሰጠው በቂ ነው። መስራት ያለብኝን ትቼ ነው ምጽፈው It better worth it. እውነት የሰው ህይወት መጎዳት የለበትም። My heart is positive while am writing for this for you(I mean ከመልካምነት ተነሳስቼ ነው ምጽፈው፡ nothing negative)!!

Jan 31, 2023

Tiop

230

What z hell, am sorry for u sis but the past is the past am sure u will find someone who loves u as u are rn, I would've like to know u more but am kinda not a little young from u lol,, and the repair stuff I don't think that's possible tho

Jan 31, 2023

TersePanda46

626

Girl as long as it's not your fault, you shouldn't be worried. Fault of someone shouldn't affect your life tho

Jan 31, 2023

StrongPuma46

121

በዚህ ሰአት እንዳንቺ ያለ ንጹሕ ህሊና ይዞ መገኘት ራሱ ድንግልና ነው የኔ እመቤት። ማንም እዚ ቅዳሜና እሁድ እንዳያልፍሽ የተባለች ይመስል አድና አምናበት ስንቱን እያስተናገደች አንቺ ለዛውም rape ተደርገሽ ያለፍላጎትሽ መጸጸትሽ እኮ የሚገርም ልቦና እንዳለሽ ነው የሚያሳየው። ከሃይማኖት አባቶች ተረጂ ግን እኔ እስከማውቀው ድረስ በተክሊል ራሱ ማግባት እንደመትችዪ ነው የማውቀው። እግዚአብሔር ሁሉንም ነገር ለውጦ እንደሚክስሽ አልጠራጠርም ምክንያቱም በከባዱ የተፈተነ ከማንም በላይ ሞገስን ያገኛል። ወንድ ሁሉ አንድ አይደለም። ሁሉም ወንድ ጭራቅ ነው ማለትም አይደለም። ለኔ የምትሆኚ ሴት ሆነሽ ፈቃድሽን ባገኝ ኖሮ እንደ ንግስት ተንከባክቤ ነበር የማኖርሽ። ለምን እየተጨነቅሽ ራሱ እንደሆነ አልገባኝም። አንቺኮ ድንገተኛ አደጋ ነው የደረሰብሽ እህቴ። ይሄንን የማይረዳ ወንድ ይኖራል ብዬ አላምንም። ካልተረዳሽ ራሱ ይሂንን አይሆንሽም ባንቺ ልክ የበሰለ ሰው አይደለም ማለት ነው። እግዚአብሔር ቀሪ ዘመንሽን በደስታ

Jan 31, 2023

BeigeDolphin73

10

Just stop blaming yourself coz what happened to u is not came from your mistake or went.......just accept the fact and move on.....start new life and find some one who special for u.......

Jan 31, 2023

CleverStoat83

2

Don't dare it please.. that surgery is a total disaster it might cause permanent vaginal bleeding

Jan 31, 2023

Abuchu

593

Make your peace with it early or you’re going to be a prisoner of yourself

Jan 31, 2023

DeepViper97

47

As a guy I'm really sorry for what happened to you. I really dont think you need to regain your v to be full. You already are one perfect person. Virginity is not about having sex and bleeding. It's about loving someone with all your heart and giving all of your self. That first night is going to be special no matter what. Its always special when you do it with love. Give it a chance for love. God have his ways of healing your heart. Who ever you are, here's a warm air hug 🤗

Feb 01, 2023

Chechebsa

1814

First thing first... learn to stop associating self worth with something like virginity. And why seek surgical solution? For what? 🤷🏾‍♀ what you need to do is to know your worth.

Jan 31, 2023

sudehead

473

People need to understand this because this thing is getting embarrassing...virginity isn't a physical thing you lose...ANY SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WITH ANOTHER PERSON AND YOU LOSE IT... it's the action, not the tissues that are destroyed. Same goes for men, you don't lose your virginity for beating your meat, YOU NEED TO SLEEP WITH A WOMAN to lose it.

Jan 31, 2023

Whydoineedaname

375

I'm really sry for what happened to u. Why would u blame u're self u got raped eko if u're feeling like this I wish u can see a psychiatrist just so u can sort ure thought gain u're confidence. About z v I don't think u should do it everyone puts so much value to it but anchi anchi nesh a peace of flesh is not gone change anything ure still z old u a peace of flesh won't change anything religious wise egzihabher yelebshen yakal hememen mikesegn bale sethegn blesh tseley yederesebeshen wend miyanadedeshen hula miyasresa theru bale yesthesh hememeshen migara..... Don't even worry about ure wedding night its gone be spectacular no matter what yanen ken lanchin consideret mihon sew enji mn endasalefsh sayak abrosh endihone atfelegim westhesh yegodal yene enat ayzosh eshi emeberehane kegonesh tehun

Jan 31, 2023

Thug_life

1

that's(ur thought) the problem. being pure ena sex They're totally d/nt things. If u want freedom in ur life just let go ur bad ideas & exreme expectations.

Jan 31, 2023

RedGiraffe34

378

First of, I wanna say I'm sorry it happened to you but, anchi ke hymen'u mn alesh ende? That doesn't really matter eko. Yemn surgery menamn new.... Second, This obviously isn't your fault. So you shouldn't blame yourself for something you weren't responsible for. And if you don't give guys the chance, how are you planning to get married menamn?....ans I advice you to go see a psychiatrist, they'll help.

Jan 31, 2023

Missme

264

Ye mahtsen hikima hidesh teykiachew

Jan 31, 2023

ZestyKoala22

10

Watch mel robbins reset mode vid

Jan 31, 2023

GrandCamel70

0

I have been through this feeling and the only solution is pray do that

May 19, 2023

Medila

-4

Please ehet anchi balaregeshwe negre lemene raseshen tewekeshalsh fetari yelebeshen yawekale ka gebashem ye befit hiwetashen yemidegefeshe mehone alebate work on your self and be happy ,pray

Feb 05, 2023

TerseBoar42

-7

Raseshn lemndn nw metweqshiw? befkadsh alaregshw endewm anchi aladeregshwm dedebochu nachew yaderegut lenesu sra demo anchi texeyaki athongim slezi raseshn mewqesun akumi esu lek aydelem ena demo set hulu 1endalhonechw wendm endezaw nw hulum yeteleyaye personality yalew nw slezi xlachawn teyw ena endebefitu lemayet xari morally gudatshn i understand but you can't begin new life unless you do the above things so yenesu xifat mehonun eyasebsh moralshn melshiw betechemari demo fexari yerdash By: Anonymous 🎖 6 rep a few seconds ago

Feb 01, 2023

Ashmuatach

29

I don't know if it will help but I got the same case as u. (I am male) felt really awful at my self and I think the biggest problem I have is how will I tell my gf if I ever get one because I don't wanna lie nor do I wanna tell her of my circumstance so I mostly felt depressed when I thought of marriage. Here is the thing I discovered that virginity is not the only thing in marriage and u don't need to fix ur self because u r not broken to begin with. Sure u might have lost ur hymn but that doesn't mean u lost ur pureness. It wasn't consentual, (I wanted to get married in the church but seems that have a slim chance) and for getting angry at men part, u r blaming them for ur experience which is a normal reaction. If u can I advise seeing a therapist and praying as well I don't weather u r protestant, Muslim, or orthodox but just pray and if u cannot afford a therapist find online forums to find people with similar experience and talk to them to overcome ur struggles ( be careful to not hateen even more cause some forums are just dedicated to that) and if u need some one to talk to as a friend just tell me and I will give u my username. I hope and pray u be happy, good day.

Feb 01, 2023

HuluAgere

-14

Was that your fault? I don't think. ሁሌም ቢሆን በእኛም ይሁን በሌሎች ሰዎች በሂወታችን ልያፀፁቱን የሚችሉ ነገሮች በጣም ብዙ ናቸው. ነገር ግን ሁሉም ነገሮችን ተራ በተራ ማለፍ የኛ ፋንታ ነው. ፀፀት አምሮን የሚያዳክም, ሌላ ነገር እንዳናስብ በር የሚዘጋ, በጣም አደገኛ ነገር ነው. ደግሞም እኛ ባንፈልግም ራሳቸውን ግዜቸዉን ጠብቀው ማለፋቸው አይቀርም. አንች ጋር የተከሰተው ነገር በርግጥ አሳዛኝ, የሚያናድድም ነገር ነው.ግን አንዴ ሆነ, የፈሰሰ ዉሃ አይታፈስም, ወደ ፊት ብቻ አስቢ. ለምን ለዛ አስቀያሚ ነገር በነፃ አምሮሽን አከራይተሽ ትኖሪያለሽ?

Jan 31, 2023

Forgiven

238

Am so sorry sis, for what happened to u. but relax and forget abt it coz that wasn't ur fault and demo manew be late 20 agbi yalesh u r too young iko am 21 and no one said this hoo

Jan 31, 2023

Nishan

844

I feel bad but i see your pain yesenlbona mkr ngr bitagegi arif yemslgal esti asbibt esun

Jan 31, 2023

Manny_Black

27

Fake is fake

Jan 31, 2023

Die

575

it's becoming too late girl! don't waste your age

Jan 31, 2023

Anonnymmous

1646

U are going to deceit ur husband. I am sorry

Jan 31, 2023

Yohanan

613.5

ይሁን human hairun እሺ Make upም ይሁን pls Virginityውን ቢያንስ የምር አርጉልን pls😊

Jan 31, 2023

J7

930.5

ወንዶች ስለሚያንገሸግሹሽ እኔም ወንድ ነኝ መልስ አልሰጥም።

Jan 31, 2023

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