How can I avoid my speechless lack of confidence?? Bezi mknyat mareg yalebgn neger enkuan eyareku adelem. kena bye mehed rasu kebdognal I always think "sewoch mn ylugnal" even sewoch siyayugn erasu betam esaqeqalew not one day every time lemn endehone gn alakm. am not comfortable at all places except home ena bexamm eyegodagn nw how can I solve it?
Jan 22, 2023Okay lemme tell u what I did when I was in the same situation..I started doing the things I fear frequently..like I was so shy i couldn't even talk to people properly..but then I started convincing myself and reading books and started socializing.....so the main point is getting out of ur comfort zone and doing the things u fear..like if u are scared to talk to ppl then get up and do it.. start a conversation..have friends..so first u hv to decide and do things u hv never done..u can do it
Jan 22, 2023Well you need to get out of your comfort zone. Seems harsh and hard, but it's true for all of us. አሁን እኔ በረሮ መፍራት አቆምኩ since they became my roommates. Anyway, do these things: 1. Wear an attire that elevates you. Leave the hoodie and wear the ኮት or sth like that. 2. Walk straight. ይሄ shit is very important. አንገት ቀና and ትከሻ ቀጥ like you're about to dance እስክስታ። 3. Look at people's eyes or at least face when speaking to them. No ማፍጠጥing though. 4. Say ሰላም to የሰፈር ሰዎች. It's a very good practice. 5. Unless there is ፀሐይ in your eyes, አትኮሳተር. Relax your face. 6. When people smile at you, smile back. Reciprocation is a good communication tool. But if they joke የተመታ ቀልድ, "ኧረ ማን ፍታ" ብለሀቸው እለፍ እንዳያዝጉህ። ለማንኛውም this is my ጠዋታ አዘል advice. I know these because I was shy too. But I slowly applied these and I'm in a much better state now. Lastly, make sure you have your own territory on public. ሰው አንፍራ ብለንም ሰው በጣም መቅረብ አደገኛ ነው። Hope this helped. Good Day!
Jan 23, 2023It's about time Gymmm
Jan 23, 2023I can tell your a very nice Guy. You think all people deserves to be treated good. Also you expect in return a Good thing to happen to you. But No fucking human cares about your emotions they always hurt you. Instead of Good thing bad things happen to you every time . the negative emotions that you pass from childhood makes you Living like a shy person which your not. And that makes you think you don't deserved To be loved. Well my bro I'm here to help you. If you're interested to talk to me put your user name so that I can contact you.
Jan 23, 2023i can help @yoni_xYZ
Jan 22, 2023Think that everyone is like you and even less than you. dont give that much high high values to people i am not saying be arrogant just be humble gn you should know that every person is like u not more than you
Jan 30, 2023Well let me tell ya the easiest way to gain ur confidence .. i mean i have been in ur situation but now many ppls tell me that i'm over confident .. n affirmation helped me write it on sm paper like"i am confident "n start affirm twat and mata but u need to express how u feel when u saying it rly emotional honh mhon albet n trust me yhone seat lay u will find ur self confident but u need to be patient n then develop it by doing things u fear n by doing things u like sleleloch opinion satchnk. Don't hesitate okay it will help ya
Jan 23, 2023