They want the safest because they think it's the best

The safe is the best.... But not always.... So you get to decide you own choice.... And show them that there are other ways of success.... After all you are left for your self at the end.

true b/c it's hard to find both at the same time but our families always prefer safety

Maybe🤔 suiii

Trust me families are evil inside🙂 they also have a good heart like other human being .