I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling self-conscious about your lips. Unfortunately, there are no ways of reducing the size of your lips without surgery. However, there are ways you can minimize their appearance. Makeup can be a good option to help balance out your facial features. You can use lip liners to define and redefine the shape of your lips to your desired preference. Additionally, lip gloss and lipstick can help add more dimension to make the lips appear smaller. If you're really self-conscious, you may want to consider seeing a plastic surgeon to discuss the options they provide. It's important that you go to a board certified doctor who can answer any questions you have and fully explain the risks associated with the procedure.