Yes you overcome them eventually. You aren't the same person everyday, every year. Stop determining your self-worth by the validation you get from others. Do the things you do for yourself. Work hard because you want to be a hard worker, not because you want others to notice. Exercise because you want to be a healthy person, not because it's what you think will make you attractive. Study hard because you want to learn new things, not because you want to make good grades. You basically have to prove to yourself that your worth more than what life has handed you. You have to believe that your determination will win. Force yourself (in baby steps) to be more outgoing. Allow vulnerability. Get used to the fact that you can learn to chose the right company, trustworthy friends, a direction in life to accomplish whatever it is you want to accomplish. Discard whatever you believe doesn't help you get there. Often people assess what they have as a basis: family, friends, a home, past accomplishments, and use those as a starting point and compass. Realize that procrastination wastes time you'll never get back. Allow yourself to LIVE and be free to grow (and make mistakes and learn from them). Good luck 👍