Your answer is in your question. Be independent. Don't depend on anyone.

Believe in your self. If you don't think you can succeed, who else will?. You already know what you have to do. Just listen to your inner voice. It's telling you what you have to do. No one can stop you. It's only you that is stopping you. Visualise success.Then you'll be motivated😕

I would start by learning to spell "successful". (Letting the grammar slip btw) Seriously though, work your butt of. There's a lot of resistance you have to overcome of course (as a woman) but it just means you need to work that much harder.

Don't be a ho.

Think

Marry a rich man and divorce him

Focus, identify the career that makes u happy and strive 4 it