Don't be too nice. Betam toxic hun lemalet sayhon be Bold and have a spine. Your goal as a man should be to Chase your dream. They will tag along. I am not disrespecting women. That is just how it is and HOW IT SHOULD BE. They should be the one trying to impress you, NOT YOU. If you are being too nice, too polite or just acting like someone you truly are not just to impress them, Stop it. You will eventually become passive aggressive if you are not yourself. I was actually like you a few years ago. Then i read a book by robert glover called "how to stop being a nice guy". That book changed my life. Not only regarding women but just my life as a man. I have a nice girlfriend and i love her very much but i will never take my eye off from building my empire. Guess what, she tagged along and she is helping me a loooot and i love and respect her for that. So focus on becoming a man worth having and they will tag along.