Nah depends on ur reason if u using it coz u r desperate then its desperate but if u using it coz u don like the chasing or u r tired of the chasing and the መጀንጀኒንግ then its not desperate and personally i don like tinder i don believe anything good comes out of using it but if its working for u who z fuck cares if its desperate fuck dem ppl if u r afraid of it lookin desperate for ozr ppl thats not ryt but if u r afraid of ur own conscience then i understand