don't give a shit about what peoples think of u... but if u r feeling like u r not much of ቁምነገረኛ start to be responsible for stuff, give a shit once in a while and do things only when they r needed to be done... that's all there is to it. but it's boring to be ቁምነገረኛ... just chill it's not like the ቁምነገረኛ people made it out alive 🙄