I had a bf and we broke up and it really broke me and i need to move on but i can't get closure. he always said he felt disrespected even though i thought i was showing him care. we tried talking about what respect meant to him but i guess i just didn't understand. he felt like i was giving him less than the bare minimum. there were a lot of fights that stemmed from this and after months, we finally broke up but towards the end, he was calling me a narcissist, gaslighter, toxic etc. and i just dont get how because i really tried to show that i care and i even started to change myself to satisfy his apparently un-satisfiable needs I could never understand. What did i do wrong?
Aug 16, 2022you said "he felt disrespected even though i showed him care" those are two different things eko He is demanding respect not sympaty. as a man we need to feel respected by our loved ones The fact that him saying he feels disrespected and that starting a lot of fights shows that he's damn right
Aug 17, 2022