actually my ex once or twice gave me a real orgasm without even making love or anything ... we were just playing around .. you know as dry humpping & making out ... any how to answer your question ... the 1st time ever he used his fingers (not sticking them inside but rubbing my clit smoothly & gently in circles then ups & downs slowly while kissing me passionately on my lips, neck & boobs while sucking slightly on my boobs every now & then ... & then he rubbed faster & i came 😊 as a waterfall) ... the 2nd time was when he licked my p***y (he came down into me ... ate my cat 😅 u know ... that was hot & the orgasm was amazing )