i am a male living in addise ,age 25 ,i am till a virgin, i tryed once to have sex with my ex, but she make me feel guitly even for sujesting it,she sayed she will only do sex after merrage, that was when i was 23. we broke up without having sex back then. we get back together 3 month ago and she was not vergin , she had two bf before me and i was still verigin and didint find any girl , and it makes me angry , and i started to despise her, dont respect her anymore and we broke up agian without having sex again, now i am still a vergin ,, is being still a vergin at 25 noraml in ethiopia also why she told me she wanted to have sex with me after we get merried again ,even if she was not a vergin,caue according to her ,she has to know weather i am merrying her for sex or not,so we have to wait till we merried even if she is not vergin.