Hey I don’t know who to talk to leza nw… my older sister is suicidal.. she has been for years now and I don’t know what to do… our parents know but they didn’t even bother to help they are always so focused on our grades and what ye sefer sw will say about us… I’m so confused and I feel useless bc if I can’t help my own sister what’s the point of my existence?? Im losing myself just like she has I started cutting myself dero and stopped but Im doing it again and I’m becoming an alcoholic at the age of 19 and I can’t go down that tunnel cause if I do i lose myself too then I can’t take her out of hers. I really need help but I don’t know who to go to. I need help. Anyone’s help. I don’t care from who or from where. All I know is I need help. Please. Please help me eski….
Jul 02, 2022Firstly, sorry for what you're going through. Second, I think you should find out what made her suicidal in the first place. People don't think about suicide as in non existence, rather it's the avoidance of the pain they are feeling, so try to figure out what that pain is, and if it can be solved or made better, focus on that. I don't think saying don't die think about me, or it's a sin, or life can be good, works, it's futile. Suicide is a mechanism of running away from pain, so find out what the pain is.
Jul 02, 2022