so yeah since am a girl I think I have the right to respond to this question. But first I give u my warm greetings from Ethiopia. And hope you find this helpful. I don't think this is the right type of relationship. Because how can a man ignores his loved one even for one day? Unless he is having a hard situation which he wasn't able to tell you. But no matter what since it's a relationship (which requires both parties)he would have told you if he had one. What he is having for you is a feeling not a real love. Love is standing for not falling for. When you love some one you show care, respect, responsibility and knowledge about that person consistently, just like your mother or father. Meaning they do things for you because they believe they need to do this not because they feel so. So if he ignores you for a month then he is incapable of giving you the love you deserve. Most men are like this. Meaning they talk to u at first with high emotions and cares( it's a trap, plus sadly women like it) then after a while they get bored of you. Well it's not you fault and has never been but they desire for a new one. The reason why u let him in seems to me due to your open door policy or you have no personal boundaries. So you need to admit he made a mistake and make a firm decision that you are not an item where he can be with when is happy and not be with when he is bored. Respect your self and stop talking to him. Focus on your self Make Ur self ready for the life that you are only going to face it. Ready your self emotionally, spiritually and financially.