Love ur self ,depend on ur God and ur self ,love ur company, decide for ur self don't let anyone to decide for u ,always tell positive things for ur self (ene yewededkutn neger madreg echlalew,tenegha negh,destegha negh...)walk like a gentle person specially walk defines u so walk like an angle ,ask ur self what is important for me identify what is good and bad for u ,and ask ur God to give u open mind ......bzu bzu nachew