So am a person living with Hiv and I have this girl and i realIy wanna go further with her (if you know what i mean) but I have a moral dilemma......should I tell her or not......there is only a low chance that she contracts the virus if we use condom.....so can't I just do that......if I tell her and she leaves me it will ruin me ....help pls...and I would really appreciate it if ppl with HIV could comment on this too
Sep 16, 2020And people ask why I have trust issues
Sep 16, 2020Dude if you really love her then you must tell her
Sep 16, 2020I will say you are just being selfish and not in love if you make any advance on her while keeping her in the dark. If you are truly in love, come clean about your situation
Sep 16, 2020You gotta tell her and she will decide whether to stay or leave. You can’t ruin her life even if the condom effectiveness is high, there’s always a chance of being broke. Please don’t throw the girl under the bus for your own satisfaction. If she stayed after you talked to her, there’s hiv center around lem hotel, its free and they advice you both. The doctors are very nice.
Sep 16, 2020Yooo niggaa this is an actual crime. You can get arrested if you lead her on without telling her. WHY TF ARE YOU EVEN CONSIDERING THIS??? because you love her?? No you don't STOP BEING SELFISH AND TELL HER. It can ruin her whole life and she can also get pregnant which can also ruin your life. JUST TELL HER
Sep 16, 2020Dont you think you should be honest if you want to go further what if that low chance gives her HIV think about what it would do to her and if she likes you too then I think she will say ok
Sep 16, 2020Dude if you did this on her you'll regret for the rest of your life... tell her be a man and face what's will happen next
Sep 16, 2020Take your meds properly and use condom demo just tell her if she loves you she will stay
Sep 16, 2020Even if you don't love her don't do it I keep reading ppl writing If you love her no just don't do it because she doesn't deserve this no one does
Sep 16, 2020Tell her because you deserve someone who loves you entirely with or without the HIV, if she leaves because of that, it means she doesn't love you or never truely did. Her leaving would be a blessing
Sep 16, 2020Ere protection etekemalew bleh btasbm gn sex kemaregachu befit Hulu neger ngerat .... Guday barif biyalfm yaw behala btnegrat .... Agatami negeroch bibelashus beka behiwete lay ferdeh neber malet new bla ltrkh tchlalech... Gn zm bleh kahununu jemreh btnegrat lantem netwanet new ..
Sep 16, 2020Mech nw letnegerat yasebekew malet metwedat kehone yalkewn yahl u wanna have a future with her malet nw mnm bihon dmo stanegrat befit lemagebat atasebm mechem leza ask urself this " if u r going to tell her in the future why r u refusing now to do the same " n u will have a clear image that the sex is affecting ur decisions meknyatum behuala ergetegna negn tengerataleh ena what's z difference behualam embi betel rasu beselam meleyayetu ayeshalem mknyatum she will be very very mad setak ehe dmo anten ferteh eskemechereshaw endatenegrat ena belela mknyat washeteh endetetalat yaregehal leza there is no difference behuala na ahun except ahun ke sex befit mehonu nw plsss don't make this mistake menager alebeh
Sep 16, 2020Please, tell her God will be really proud of you
Sep 22, 2020Fuck your Moral Dilemma. She has a legal right to know beforehand. Don't be a dush. 80 - 90% she might leave you but you have to live with the consequences. Don't be a dick she has the right to know and decide to herself.
Sep 20, 2020Watch "If you got it, SAY IT!" on YouTube https://youtu.be/EYnzZWGqFbo
Sep 16, 2020Ur putting her life at risk for sexual pleasure without telling her its not OK at all
Sep 16, 2020Tell her dude!!
Sep 16, 2020Two points 1) if u r going to have future together tell her , Disclosure is important 2) regarding the transmission, if u r on HAART and ur recent, with in 3 months, viral load is TND (not detected) and u r adherent to ur meds U will not transmit it, anyways it is always good to use condom U dont know about her result
Sep 16, 2020Buddy don't hesitate to announce about your situation then Let her be the risk taker or not
Sep 16, 2020Just tell her
Sep 16, 2020
No matter what the consequence you should tell her everything because this is not just about you, this is about her life too , without talking to her doing anything is putting her life at risk .
Sep 16, 2020Endeee. Nooo. U shouldnt even ask that sijemer. Jesus. You cant do that to a person knowingly. U cant even risk it. At all.
Sep 16, 2020TELL HER!
Sep 16, 2020TELL HER..its not your decision but her's whether she wanna take the risk...and if you really did love her you wouldn't risk a slim chance of her being contaminated
Sep 16, 2020You should tell her
Sep 16, 2020I swear u are the most selfish person ik .....if she loves u she will stay u have to tell her ....karama is a bitch it will get u stop doing stupid things to people...u will ruin her life forever
Sep 16, 2020