Hey guys I really am confused here! So I had a girlfriend right. And I loved her more than any thing in my life. She also happened to be my first love. I honestly would not have imagined my life without her not even for a moment and we were together for about 3 years. But she recently had to move abroad and she told me that she didnt want any ties back here and she wanted to move on with her life and she broke up with me. I expected myself to breakdown into a million pieces and be hurt in unrecoverable manner but what actually happened was the exact opposite. I was just okay. Malet i felt a little sad for two days mnamn and then suddenly I was all okay. Malet I was fine beka and i moved on with no remorse whatsoever in just a month mnamn. Most people i have talked to about this have been jealous of the fact that I was strong or whatever gn I just dont think it is just strength. I feel like there is something wrong with me mentally or emotionally or whatever. So i wanted to ask yall if you have ever been thru the same thing or if this really is weird and I should see a therapist mnamn. Thanks in advance π
Sep 14, 2020I would be careful with this because when something big like this happens like sudden instead of feeling the emotions and pain to tend to avoid it sanakew hula.....maybe be u numbed ll the pain and someday burst endatareg. Just chill and face eberything....but if u r goog good for u
Sep 14, 2020