Our mindsets and way of thinking are sometimes influenced by the society and mostly the family we came out of. How many times were you told/advised to become first of your class or to be the number one student in class/school by your parents or by someone close to you and they also tell you that if you are not better than your friends you will end up in a bad horrible places or get rejected by everyone or not even be successful in life. See they thought they were giving you advice but they dont know they are putting fear in your mind, then you think what if i cant become what they expected to become, this fear will put you in a position where you are going to become somebody else,someone who will do anything to get what they want, which i think is not you. But where every single person in this planet wrong is that life is not about competition, not always. For example as a students you learn the same book and be given the same exam and then get higher or lower results in exam than your friends. Belive me when i say this, it does say anything about who you are going to be/ become it is just a test to evaluate how much you can MESHEMDED/remember what you've read for the time being. My point is, like our finger prints our destiny and purpose in life is different, you might wish to have what your friend have (money, family, fame, love friends...)but it is wrong. It is wrong because it will blind you from seeing what you have now. But know this you will always have the best you deserve when the time is right. Because God will not let you down even if you do. Always be happy for your friends and others, think of it this way, whatever is your friend's count it as it is your's or you have contributed to its existence, but don't talk/brag about to anyone. And last but not list what i can say is that don't look at other and tell your self that you are falling behind or tell your self you are better than or doing greater than everyone. Instead of this SET YOUR OWN GOAL/TARGET AND ALWAYS TRY TO ACHIEVE IT AN COMPARE YOUR SELF TO YOUR GOAL NOT TO YOUR FRIEND'S. i dont know if i answered your question correctly but you can contact me for more explanation..