Hello my people i need your advices... i am a biologist and i come and go to my fairy Country from time to time. I grew up in a church learning theological mesmery. I have a 5 yr relationship with my girlfriend ... and as a man who grew in church it's not allowed to have sex before marriage.. and since i come and go she is suspecting me of having sex when i go to kenya. At this moment i am not ready for marriage and she keeps on nagging me and send her family belongings to me to propose đź’Ť but i am not ready at all... and even if i am not into marriage she wants us to have a child which i am not ready for... and now this moment for me is to hustle not to marry please guys what shall i do?
Apr 16, 20225 years is a long time, and relationships has a natural course. By this time , at least u should have a solid plan when u will be married. I don't see her fault, women has a natural clock. u should make things that will assure her, meet her families, open bank account together, bullying assets together, or at least be engaged đź’Ť Take it from A brother who has passed with similar situation ..
Apr 17, 2022