Okay this is just driving me crazy. In America it's normal for teens to have sex? WHY? Parents are fine with it ? HOW?like the only thing they say is uae protection but they see it as something that's completely okay and just cuz teens are horny they should have sex to relieve themselves. I didn't wanna medemdem till I was sure but I am now , and it's true , I'm not saying it's all of em but it's most so don't fight me on that. Is it because as Ethiopians , we are raised to see sex as something after marriage menamem is that why this is confusing me and making me angry? In my opinion, They are fucking teenagers they shouldn't be going around having sex or sitting in a waiting room for an abortion and shit like wtf you are a kid , do ur go to school, do ur homework and use ur goddamn phone. So yeah my question is , am I freaking out cuz that's how ppl in Africa are raised to think about sex and it's fine or am I right to think they're totally dumb
Sep 10, 2020This is my opinion on the matter. Everyone has sex. Whether it's Americans, Europeans or Ethiopians. The fact that our society sees sex as a taboo does not lead to youngsters abstaining from sex. It doesn't keep teens from having sex before marriage. You could raise your kid in a society that tells them sex is bad but chances are they'd do it anyway. The way I see it endewim making it a taboo is worse. If they're gonna do it anyway, shouldn't it be better if they can talk openly about it? If parents can warn them about STDs and unwanted pregnancies? If it's openly discussed so people can be aware of everything? Ezi anything related to sex is a taboo, you can't discuss it in any way. And yet, we're one of the most HIV infested countries in the world. And don't even get me started on other STDs and unwanted pregnancies. Our society is obsessed with sex and we have the highest number of porn watchers in the world. So tell me, is the fact that our society made sex a taboo actually keeping people from having sex? No. It's making them do it in hiding, opening the way to the risks and dangers they weren't even aware of. Americans are normalizing their kids having sex because they know that even if they tell them "don't have sex!", chances are they're gonna do it anyway. But atleast it's better if they know everything there is to it and keep safe.
Sep 10, 2020