In relationship there are two people so when people say your are hurting him don't listen to them because if your toying with him he had a brain so it is his choice to continue this relationship. But when I say this I am not saying give him a false hope. He can make his choice when he knows the truth about you. So in relationship always be honest. First understand your feelings, be with him when you want and ghost him when you don't want. Then evaluate the two situations from your perspective, altitude and life choice. And if you can choose one of them but if you can't choose tell him the truth. Tell him there are times you want him and there are times you don't, because there people who are like you are bored easily and not great at relationship. Tell him if there is any reason that make you ghost him and if there is no reason tell him that. Tell him everything, about your feeling about what you think about the relationship and also GI e him a chance to think and do the same, then discuss your issues, decide and move forward. If he wants to continue then it is on him, if doesn't there will be your special one hopefully when you are ready. But I hope you won't continue like this without giving him the choice.
Apr 13, 2022